Reflection is really important Mayank, glad you wrote about that as well. It's not about ruminating as you say, but about seeing what you did, learning, and then moving forward with the new knowledge you've gained.
I don't really set resolutions either.
There are a lot of people pushing products into your face at the end of the year talking about how you can make 2025 your best year. But you can do that yourself by reflecting and figuring out what you want. Doesn't need some grand masterplan.
I didn't feel the "fresh start effect" either... Christmas and New Year are huge holidays in our country and it's the busiest time of the year--celebrations, social gatherings, visiting relatives, traveling, etc. As an introvert, my energy is easily drained 🥲
I actually get more energy once the holiday season is over and I have more quiet time to reflect on the past and set intentions for the year ahead. The fresh start effect doesn't have to apply only on the first day of the year but also on the first day of a new month or a new week. Better yet, see every day as a "fresh start" to work on what you find meaningful :)
That's an optimistic view, Alea. Atleast you know you're an introvert, I have both qualities, I love solitude but also get energy from others. I think it's called an omnivert.
I set 2 achievable resolutions because that's part of our New Years Eve tradition in our house.
There's nothing really new about a new year but it's an opportunity to pause and reflect and set some new goals. We don't need to do it then but I think it's a valuable opportunity for people who do want to make a change. If they're looking for an excuse, they get one at least once a year.
I've seen lots of people mentioning that it doesn't have to be New Year to reflect or to plan for the future recently, they're right of course, but let's hear those messages in March, when everyone has failed with their resolutions and needs that kick up the backside they won't usually get at that time of year.
Maybe I'll write that post now and schedule it for 3 months time!
You're right Mark, that is a topic for that time, I just wanted people to remember it from start. Btw, I love your house tradition, I'm not against goals 😅
Reflection is really important Mayank, glad you wrote about that as well. It's not about ruminating as you say, but about seeing what you did, learning, and then moving forward with the new knowledge you've gained.
I don't really set resolutions either.
There are a lot of people pushing products into your face at the end of the year talking about how you can make 2025 your best year. But you can do that yourself by reflecting and figuring out what you want. Doesn't need some grand masterplan.
Yeah Stefano, it's just the hype I don't like.
I didn't feel the "fresh start effect" either... Christmas and New Year are huge holidays in our country and it's the busiest time of the year--celebrations, social gatherings, visiting relatives, traveling, etc. As an introvert, my energy is easily drained 🥲
I actually get more energy once the holiday season is over and I have more quiet time to reflect on the past and set intentions for the year ahead. The fresh start effect doesn't have to apply only on the first day of the year but also on the first day of a new month or a new week. Better yet, see every day as a "fresh start" to work on what you find meaningful :)
That's an optimistic view, Alea. Atleast you know you're an introvert, I have both qualities, I love solitude but also get energy from others. I think it's called an omnivert.
I set 2 achievable resolutions because that's part of our New Years Eve tradition in our house.
There's nothing really new about a new year but it's an opportunity to pause and reflect and set some new goals. We don't need to do it then but I think it's a valuable opportunity for people who do want to make a change. If they're looking for an excuse, they get one at least once a year.
I've seen lots of people mentioning that it doesn't have to be New Year to reflect or to plan for the future recently, they're right of course, but let's hear those messages in March, when everyone has failed with their resolutions and needs that kick up the backside they won't usually get at that time of year.
Maybe I'll write that post now and schedule it for 3 months time!
You're right Mark, that is a topic for that time, I just wanted people to remember it from start. Btw, I love your house tradition, I'm not against goals 😅